{"id":3491,"date":"2011-04-09T14:07:06","date_gmt":"2011-04-09T19:07:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/?p=3491"},"modified":"2011-05-18T16:24:18","modified_gmt":"2011-05-18T21:24:18","slug":"crashing-waves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/2011\/04\/crashing-waves\/","title":{"rendered":"Crashing Waves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-3492\" href=\"http:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/2011\/04\/crashing-waves\/john-sonia\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3492\" style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" title=\"John and Sonia Miller\" src=\"http:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/John-Sonia-300x204.jpg\" alt=\"John and Sonia Miller\" width=\"237\" height=\"161\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/John-Sonia-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/John-Sonia-150x102.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.aikidocenterofjacksonville.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/John-Sonia.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 237px) 100vw, 237px\" \/><\/a>He has this way of putting you at ease, at calming you. I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a parlor trick, or if it&#8217;s something he picked up out West. But if it <em>is<\/em> a parlor trick, it&#8217;s a damn good one.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe it&#8217;s just practice. If it is, then I think I understand. You see, there is really only one thing about John you need to know. He&#8217;s always training. Always.<\/p>\n<p>He told me this story once. I was having a bad day, about something trivial, and was dealing with it as I always do. Badly.<\/p>\n<p>He took me aside, and told me something I remember to this day: &#8220;Jerry, it&#8217;s all crashing waves.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The anger you feel right now? The anger that&#8217;s keeping you from training? It&#8217;s just a wave, crashing on the shore.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>It&#8217;s just a wave, he told me, rising slowly on the surf, rising until it wavers, until it topples and recedes, slowly, inevitably, away.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Of course there&#8217;s more to it than that.<\/p>\n<p>You may not know this, and John certainly didn&#8217;t advertise it, but he is deeply involved in transcendental meditation. It&#8217;s why he would disappear sometimes, for a week or two out West. He wasn&#8217;t going to Vegas. He was meditating.<\/p>\n<p>And this is what I mean when I say that John is always training. Not just Aikido, or only Aikido. John has bigger fish to fry.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>You know, now that I look back, I really don&#8217;t think it was a parlor trick at all&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re going to miss you, John. Please keep in touch.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He has this way of putting you at ease, at calming you. I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a parlor trick, or if it&#8217;s something he picked up out West. 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